Sometimes . . . Zen Happens

It was a beautiful sunny October morning.  I was in my car on the way to my yoga class. It is called Gentle and Meditation.  Although it is gentle, I still feel like I get good stretching and strengthening too, with a nice meditation component.  It is about a 20 minute drive.  We had only lived here a few months and the yoga class was something that  helped me the most as I adjusted to a brand new community. 

I was driving along enjoying the morning, approaching the bridge when I saw the dreaded red light.  The bridge was up.  "Oh no", I thought. " I really need this class today."  I was new enough that I didn't feel exactly comfortable entering the room late, especially since it begins with meditation. My thoughts jumped ahead. I would miss my class. I was feeling very tense. I even called Steve to tell him I was stuck on the bridge, probably wouldn't make it to class and was not very happy.

Then I looked to my left across the river and saw one of my favorite views here. I could see the River Walk, little restaurants, old houses on the elevation behind and trees scattered amongst the buildings.  It is quaint, warm and welcoming. I look at it as I am driving or riding with someone over the bridge.  And I always think," I wish I could stop and just enjoy it.  I don't even want to take a picture, just enjoy."  Well, here it was.  I smiled and took in a nice calming breath.

Heaven!

And then, a song came blasting out of the radio.  The Bluetooth that I had tried  unsuccessfully to pair up with my phone suddenly worked and one of the songs on my phone was playing.

It was . . .  "I Feel Good" by James Brown.  I smiled and really did laugh out loud.

Joy! 

In that moment, I knew that this beautiful place was home.

And the bridge went down shortly after and I made it to class with plenty of time, smiling all the way.

And suddenly you just know . . .

It's time to start something new

and trust in the magic of

New Beginnings

 

Meister Eckhart

13th century theologian,

 philosopher and mystic

 

 

 

In My Corner Today (located in my VW Beetle, of course)

 

To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings by John O'Donohue, 2008.

I checked this little book out of the library last week.  My yoga teacher reads selections from it for class sometimes.  It is a poetry book of blessings for many occasions, such as birthdays, friendship, travelers, meals, grieving and so many other things. Someone I met at yoga classes uses the poems to send as little gifts. They are lovely readings.

 

 

Sarah Style: An Inspirng Room-by-Room Guide to Designing Your Perfect Home by Sarah Richardson, 2014.

Sarah Richardson is my design guru. She is a Canadian decorator/designer who has had many shows on HGTV. My daughter-in-law and I fell in love with her about twelve years ago when she had a show called "Room Service". We both were attracted to her personality and her room designs. I have been learning from her and copying her designs every since. This is her first book and has many helpful hints, color schemes and design ideas. I have used it a lot as I have made this house our home.

 

 

Great Big Ball of Yarn

These days yarn is usually wound using a swift and ball winder.  They do it for you at the yarn shop and it makes a very cool looking "yarn cake".  I sometimes have a bit of restlessness in the evening, so I decided to wind yarn the old fashioned way. I take my time and it is very calming.  So I wound all 700 yards of this cotton and linen yarn. Very Zen.

 

 

 



 

 

Here is our Tiffany lamp shade hanging in our hallway.

(See Archie's Chair post). It's light welcomes us home.





Archie's Chair

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Now for Archie's Chair

Several days ago, I got up, said Good Morning to our girls (dogs Greta and Zoey) and headed to the kitchen for that first cup of coffee, the best of the day.  Our kitchen is large and has a seating area next to our nice big windows.  Many mornings we sit there or on the back porch and have our coffee.  I usually sit in the wicker chair that allows me a view of our back yard. It has a comfortable ottoman in front of it and I settle in very nicely.  It's My Cozy Corner. My husband, Steve usually sits at the kitchen table.  In our retirement life, morning is such a special time, the most relaxed of the day.

But this morning as I ventured into the kitchen I saw (oh no!) Steve sitting in MY chair. WHAT?! !!  He never does that!. Did he read my first blog entry or something? So, in my state of shock and horror, I poured my coffee and sat in another chair.  I moved around, tried a small stool in front of the chair and finally ended up bringing in an ottoman from the living room. Once I settled in, it turned out to be a very nice morning. Steve and I sat slightly facing each other and had a really nice conversation.  As I sat in the "other" chair, I also noticed  that the cushion wasn't quite as comfy.  Note to self: get a different cushion.

As the lazy morning progressed, I gazed at the back hallway leading in from the garage. From "my chair", I usually face the other direction.  I noticed how drab the overhead light fixture was, and then, the  light bulb came on. Up in our attic we have a lovely green and yellow tiffany light fixture.  We have had it over the kitchen table in two houses for almost 40 years. There is no place for it over our current kitchen table and for one year I have been thinking about where can I use it?  Over my cozy corner in my studio? Remade as a lamp shade? No answers. 

And here it was, just because Steve sat in my chair. 

So, I gingerly said to Steve, "I have an uncomfortable question to ask you".  He really hates doing jobs like that.

He said "what?"

"I think our tiffany lamp shade would look really nice in that back hallway. Would you put it up?" 

Answer," sure, or I'll pay someone to do it."  No argument or groaning.  Most unusual.

See how much nicer the Tiffany shade will be?

Synchrodestiny
 
To paraphrase Deepak Chopra's definition of synchrodestiny -- the universe is trying to tell you something, go with the flow.

That unwanted change in my morning routine pushed me to look at my world from a different perspective, to really look at a place that I normally don't .  I don't believe I would have come up with the idea on my own. I wasn't a willing participant in this change, but I believe I made myself open to what might happen next and good things did. 

It laughingly reminded me of Archie Bunker of the 1970s TV show "All in the Family" and how he clung to his chair and his stubborn viewpoints. That chair was a significant symbol on the show. It's now in The National Museum of American History.     

 I rejoice in getting past my Archie moment.  I received a wonderful little gift that morning.  The more I can practice this, the better I will get at it. And what could my life be like if I can practice this on a larger scale, for bigger moments.

 

Accept - then act.

Whatever the present moment

contains, accept it as if you had

chosen it . . .This will miraculously

transform your whole life."

Eckhart Tolle

 

 

 

In My Corner Today

 

Eckhart Tolle Quote. oprah.com
Search on the web site to get a nice copy of the above quote.  I have a copy I printed a few years ago. It serves me well.
 

Super Brain by Deepak Chopra, MD and Rudolph E. Tanzi, 2012.
The notation on the cover states "unleashing the explosive power of your mind to maximize health, happiness, and spiritual well-being.  I have read this twice and will read it again.  Good stuff for living and growing.

Kid's Sun Hat #90263AD, free pattern on ravelry.com

 I used this pattern to make a little basket for a friend.  I will fill it with little printed affirmations. The pattern is for a hat, but can be adjusted to any size and just the circle and the sides can be don. It also makes a cute hat for kids or adults.  Single crochet is the only stitch used.

P.S.  I also found a place for a cute little table with a lamp attached.  I had also been stuck on that on for a year.

 

 





 





My Cozy Corner

This is an exciting moment . . . me writing a blog.  I am still trying to figure it out, so here goes . . .

I talked with a friend of mine the other day and she told me she had started a blog. During our conversations, we usually talk about all things existential; our families, our lives now that we are "aging", our spiritual journey. After I hung up, I read the entries on her blog.  They were wonderful, a culmination of all she has experienced, accomplished and what she is doing now. And then, it hit me.  Why not do a blog myself? As a woman of a certain age, I am working on aging issues and spiritual issues.  I do a lot of reading and studying and am learning so much from spiritual teachers.

I have been wanting to explore new ways of self-expression, connect with others and organize my thoughts, so here I am.

Why Cozy Corner?

Some years ago, I began to place a comfortable chair in many rooms of my house.  I would then put an ottoman, a pillow, quilt or afghan with it.  I wanted a place for myself and others to settle in and feel safe and comfortable.  As I sat in my cozy corners in each room, I could look at the room, enjoy it, inhabit it.  I would sit in various corners at different times to read, knit, meditate or just be.  It gave me a feeling of belonging and a love for each room.  I would think, make decisions, feel joyful and sorrowful.  I belonged there. 

Almost a year ago, we moved to a different location and a different house. I purposefully placed a cozy corner in just about every room, the front porch and back porch.  The only room left is the dining room (haven't figured that out yet).

 I sit with my husband in his "office" while he works on the computer. We have light conversation and decision making discussions. His room has a golf theme and is decorated in warm reds and greens. I can sit in our big kitchen and bask in the streaming sun during winter days.  We have two guest rooms upstairs and a full bath.  One room is my "studio" with fabric, yarn and all sorts of materials.  It also doubles as a guest bedroom with two twin beds designed for grandchildren stays.  The other room is purely guest.  It has a nice sitting area and a TV.  Sometimes I sit in there and knit or watch TV.  I love "living" in every part of our house.  We are making a home. Our guest area doesn't sit empty or closed to gather dust.  I love experiencing our life and our house from different perspectives.

I thought and thought about a name for my blog and kept coming back to My Cozy Corner.  It is a warm, safe place for me to experience our house and my life.  I can now feel that same warmth and coziness inside of me quite often as I move about the world and experience life. I want to experience it more. 

So I thought I would try to express thoughts and feelings from this place of warmth, comfort, and safety; to organize thoughts; to share and invite sharing. . .

 

My Cozy Corner in Steve's "office"



 



In My Corner Today

The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav, 1989
I read it for the first time in the 90s after seeing him on Oprah.  I couldn't quite identify with it then.  I have seen and listened to him many times since then and have read the book about three more times.  I always learn something.  I just bought a hardbound 25th anniversary edition with a detailed study guide and can't wait to read, think and absorb.

The Shadow of Your Smile by Mary Higgins Clark, 2010
In 2010 I went to a book signing. I hadn't read her books, but the visit meant a lot to a dear friend. I found  Mary Higgins Clark to be a warm, genuine lady. I don't see my friend often now (although we talk on the phone regularly). Holding my signed book and reading it makes me feel close to her.